This Post is About Christmas

You’ve been warned. If you don’t want to hear about Christmas, pass right on through!

As I said the other day, my body is ready for fall. Not so much winter, but cooler days, and a new season.

Being myself, I’ve made a long list of who we’re wanting to get Christmas gifts for, and I’ve jotted some gift ideas next to them. With my recent talk of being brave, there is a sting that sits with me, where one time it was said “You can always count on Hailey to give you something homemade or second hand.” And it wasn’t said with love. And that SUCKED. Because I do love giving homemade things! And if I find something second hand that is awesome that I think someone would love, yes, I’ll gift it. That stigma sat with me for a while. Until now! Its still there. but I’m trying to be brave, and trust that my people know me, know my intentions, and choose to see the best in me. I can hope, anyway! Lol! I have a bit of anxiety as I write gift ideas that I’m (gulp) making myself on my list, but I’m going for it! Hopefully everyone understands šŸ™‚ Consider, if you get a homemade gift, from me or anyone else, that a lot of work and love went into it! A homemade gift is NOT the easy way out at all!!

Another thing I’m considering, with the theme of bravery behind it, is doing the Christmas marketplace here in town šŸ˜¬ It feels SO scary to even consider it, because then my “trying new things” will be completely public. And it will be clear if they’re good or not. Freaks me out even thinking about it, but I want to trust my community, too. So there’s that. Gah! So many weird scary things on the hypothetical docket. Goodness!

I have in my head that I would love to do some kind of gift exchange among my friends/readers/community, but its pretty clear that you don’t all know each other. I feel like a Secret Santa would be SO FUN! I don’t know! Is that too crazy to think that people would buy gifts for people they didn’t know? What if it was a handmade Secret Santa?? Could be anything from food to wood to cloth to a service to Pinterest crafts to whatever else! I don’t know! But its been on my mind for a while šŸ™‚ Anyone find that intriguing? If there was actual interest, I would LOVE to set something up! A Facebook event/group, where everyone could answer a few “what I’m into” questions. I’d pull names. There would be a low cost entry. I could even commit to driving things to people if mailing costs was an issue. Seriously, I think this sounds SO fun!

Is anyone in for something like this? āœ‹ I know its August, but in the spirit of handmade things taking longer to “acquire” maybe its socially acceptable šŸ˜‰ PLEASE let me know! This would be SO fun!

Melissa

I just wanted to say how great it is that you are aiming to be brave in little situations šŸ™‚
When it comes to gift-giving I tend to overthink things if it is a gift for someone other than my parents, my husband or kids. What if they already own what I choose? What if I completely miss the mark? Last year I participated in a work Secret Santa and boy did I stress out about it!

Homemade gifts are the BEST. One of my most memorable and special gifts was homemade. I was teaching ESL to teenagers and I mentioned in passing that I was on the lookout for the perfect extra-long pink scarf. Imagine my delight when a few days later a sweet Korean girl presented me with an extra-long pink scarf that she had stayed up late into the night knitting for me šŸ™‚ I will always remember that kindness.

haileyborn

What a beautiful story!! Those kinds of things always remind me of who I am striving to be – a thoughtful person who isn’t quite so afraid of maybe not being perfect. Frankly, I think “perfect” people are intimidating, and thats the last thing I want!
I’m loving your comments, Melissa!! Thank you!