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Spent a small fortune at Costco this morning…

…as I tend to do.

Here’s the thing. I think I’ve come to a conclusion about Costco. As much as I know I should go weekly, I just don’t ever get there. I go to the city regularly, but I tend to have a shortish time crunch and I’m too far from Costco to fit it in. But I NEED to, because its easily the best value for our crew. BUT but, when I do get in, one cart does not cut it. Especially if I have all the babies with me. Nope nope nope.

So my conclusion is that I’m just going to have to suck it and go when its busy, on a weekend or in an evening, with my whole crew so I have cart pushers, and just overbuy what I can. I can supplement fresh things during the week from Walmart when I’m in the city or otherwise, or Brady can hit Coop on the way home from work. But, for Costco specifically, it has to be, and it has to be with everyone.

Except I really don’t know what I was thinking today. Did you know its Thanksgiving this weekend?? 😅 I did know, but I did not plan for Costco to be positively BURSTING at the seams, and that it was. Here I was thinking I was SO smart going on a day where the kids were out of school, because everyone else would be at work or in school, and isn’t that perfect?? I’m not sure why I thought my kids would be the only ones out of school but 🙄 We’ll just blame the Lemon Drop and call it a day. Didn’t think it through, but regardless, stuff needed doing! So in we went!

Our setup was like so:

I pushed the first cart with the Spoonful and the Lemon Drop.

Rowan pushed the next cart that held the bulk of the groceries.

Dekker pushed the last cart with the Morsel.

Yup. We went with three today. Thats how much we needed. Some of our things were big, so it just made the most sense.

The other kids still helped. Laela held the list and kept track of where we needed to go next. Solly helped load lots of things into the carts. Wavy carried the diaper bag with our emergency “babies are crying” stuff in it, and she would help occupy the babies when their cart pusher had to duck away for a second.

Somehow – and I CANNOT tell you how – this became a well oiled machine.

With my beautiful crew in tow, we hit ALL the marks. We got batteries, scotch tape, bread, chicken breasts, sausage, salami, bacon, salad stuff, tortellini, gnocchi, paper towel, milk, butter, cheese, perogies, pizzas, broccoli, coffee, crackers, baking ingredients, oats, granola bars, raisins, Tylenol, etc etc etc.

We even got TWO pumpkin pies!! 🥧 🥧

I had been on a hunt for a box of little individual lasagnas we usually get, and I hadn’t been able to find it. The kids and I did another lap of the aisle I thought it would be in, didn’t find it, and I decided to keep moving. Probably a good 5-10 minutes later, a woman approached us and quietly handed me a box of lasagnas. I know it was small, but it was SUCH a beautiful kindness 💜 Sometimes its hard to stand out the way we do, because if anything goes south, ANYTHING, everyone sees. But sometimes, it opens up some beautiful opportunities, and people use them to show us love. I know it was just lasagna. But it was really humbling.

We managed to get into a decently short line, and had SUCH a lovely cashier help us. She recognized us from coming through previously, and she was filled with the warmest compliments and kindness. And honestly, the kids really crushed it today. They earned every nice word said in their direction!

Even once we were out at the van, Rowan helped me get everything into the van while Laela tetrissed it all into place. Dekker found a safe spot up front for the pumpkin pies, and helped lift the babies into their seats and buckle them up. The others got to their spots and waited patiently. Then, Laela and Rowan took the carts back to the return, and off we went!

We hit up a McDonalnds drive-thru for some well-deserved treats! Anyone else call ahead and order 16 apple pies? No? Just us? Cool…

Of course, upon arriving home, more work began and I only just VERY recently discovered I abandoned my now cold coffee in the pantry while putting things away 😅 Ah well. Whats mom life without cold coffee?

Ok. We shopped Costco. We unloaded, and put things away. Babies ate and had naps. I finished putting things away, and typed this very blog. I can hear babies are awake now, so onto the next!! Good thing I put my feet up while I typed!

I think supper will have to be very relaxed today 😅 Perhaps we should just all eat a pumpkin pie…

Cher and I became friends SEVEN years ago! We came together to take pictures, which was a gift to me in my grief of losing my baby boy, Jamin, at 16.5 weeks along. She was one of the earlier to know about my pregnancy with Waverly, before the news was public, because I knew she would care. Even though we weren’t close, I knew she was in my corner 💜

In my corner she has stayed 💜

She took pictures for me and of me for a long, long time before we started taking them together 😅

And then started doing ALL the things together.

We laugh at ourselves when we say we are committed to our friendship, but its just the truth. She is family. Locked in.

I am 100% invested in her and her things and her life, and she has never fled from my crazy! Even though our lives are just about as opposite as they could be, our hearts are on the same level is all of the important ways 💜

We may both be stone cold weirdos…

…but we try our hardest in ALL we do!

Bottom line – there is just SO much love here 💜

Seven years, you say? I’m pretty sure we have ALWAYS been sisters 💜 It feels like you’ve always been part of me.

I love you, sweet Cherice 💜 We did it. Seven years! Easy 😘 Sign me up for the next seventy!

The last couple of days I have taken part in Prime Days! I have also done a little bit of Temu shopping, starting back in the summer months, slowly accumulating the things I know I want to get the kids. It’s actually a little strange to look at my list and see some kids, I am almost done, and some I have barely even started jotting ideas down!

If you’ve followed long enough, you know I rock the four categories – something they want, something they need, something to wear, and something to read. I also like to get everyone some jammies. Most of my kids sleep in their gitch, so the jammies are more so for a cozy Saturday at home or pajama day at school, lol! But they’re great over the Christmas break!

Christmas shopping is also a little extra ballsy when you have foster children, because you just never know how your family will look come Christmas time! However, I’m willing to take the risk. If any of our children leave before Christmas, I’ll just send their gifts along. There are too many good things for me to just not pick up for them!

The Amazon man came today with little magnadoodles for the big babies, and Temu shouldn’t be far behind with some bath toys, and a couple of house things.

Even doing a modest Christmas of four gifts per kid, with eight kids, thats a LOT of gifts! Plus, we have school teachers, skill teachers, club teachers, our doctor, our social workers (do we get them gifts?) and birth families (do we get them gifts??) to buy for. Our kids are picking names this year. Everyone in our extended family picked names as well. We have our friends and loved ones and close people as well. Good thing I LOVE finding gifts for our people or it would be terribly overwhelming 😅 but THIS is why we get a jump on it!!

*adds a couple of names to the Christmas card list*

Today was going to be a very low key day with an evening outing. But, as tends to happen, the day filled and I was out more than expected! But it was actually super helpful.

You may have picked up on it, but we’ve had some sickness floating around for a good long while now. Back to school has really kicked our butts, to say the least. And while we should be LONG on our way to healing, we are not. In fact, some continue to get worse. So I called my doctors office first thing this morning and got a same-day appointment with one of her residents for the baby that needed the most help. That Lemon Drop, though.

After the appointment was booked, my doctor actually texted me personally to tip me off that there were a couple of spots available before she saw I had already filled one. I commented that I wished I could bring the entire gang, but that the one baby needs it the most. She asked me who else really needed to be seen, and I replied that both Brady and also the Morsel would really benefit from some backup. Brady starts another round of chemo tonight, and he had this cold already during his previous round! Its time for a reprieve!! And the Morsel has a pretty crappy respiratory history, and being sick this long makes me worry about lungs. So my doctor put everyones name down and I let Brady know he had an appointment in an hour 😅

I abandoned Cher at my house (thank you for cleaning for us today 💜) and ran the babies into the city where we met Brady in the parking lot. We got into a room quite a bit later than scheduled, but its SO fine with us because I know Dr. Guselle absolutely never ever rushes us.

The appointment was long and loud, with three cranky babies on hand. We saw a resident first, who checked everything really thoroughly, and said the dreaded words “Its a virus” which always means we just have to ride things out. However, when she went to consult with Dr. Guselle, they both came back and seemed a bit more eager to actually help us get through this VERY long running sickness.

All three of those seen came out with some backup. Nasal spray. A puffer. Some antibiotics on file in case things don’t clear up or start to worsen, and some additional help with reflux that has been GROSSLY exacerbated by all the coughing.

I came home to a much cleaner house than the one I left, and Cher encouraged me to sit and rest a little while she got the babies some lunch 💜 Then, we put the big ones down for naps, and the Lemon Drop hung around with us.

It wasn’t long before kids came home, the piano was opened up, the homework came out, and things got busy for a good hour. And then we went back into the city! Whew!

A baby got a visit. Kids ate supper out. I shopped at Value Village and got Dekker winter boots. It was a great success 🙂

I am VERY grateful for my life. The days are very full, but full doesn’t mean bad. Not at all. MUCH good happened today. It is not lost on me how fortunate my family is and how many blessings are poured out on us 💜

Tomorrow was also meant to be quite quiet, but as tends to happen, I now have many things on my list 😂 Another big day ahead!! At least I’ve never ever bored!

G’night, all!

Did I even tell you guys that I petitioned the ministry for a beast stroller? I don’t remember if I did, but I can confirm that I did, in fact, request a stroller system that fits more than two children in it, and they showed UP!!

Now, there are options, but they are VERY expensive. One option was around $500 – by FAR the cheapest – but it didn’t have great reviews. The next one I could find was (ready?) a thousand dollars. It looked like it would definitely do the job, but I felt super guilty asking for such a thing. However, there was an option still more expensive, making the one that cost a thousand seem more appropriate. So I sent all three options to ALL four of the social workers I deal with regularly, and told them my concerns, the pros and cons, and the why. And I was pleasantly surprised at the total lack of pushback! They completely understood my position, where I couldn’t do anything with three babies on my own outside of my house. So the three social workers that oversee my three babies applied to their supervisors for a third of the cost of the midrange system. And it was approved!!!

Now, don’t come for me. But the one hangup of that thousand dollar stroller was that it came equipped with basic stroller wheels. So, the ministry paid for the vast majority of the stroller, while Brady and I foot the rest of the bill to upgrade to the behemoth stroller with the super tires.

The sucker came in two boxes a couple of weeks ago, and I finally built it today!!!

I made this mess of boxes and packages and pieces…

into THIS!!

It doesn’t look like much, perhaps, but it is incredible! There is also a canopy, but I didn’t put it on today. I will likely show off more of its details shortly, but not today. Today, I did enough, and I think every single person in town waved at me as I walked it down to the post office. I only had 2/3 babies for the walk, so I could have just taken the double. However, I needed to pick up three parcels, as well as four jugs of milk. So I brought this monstrosity, and was able to load the whole thing down with all of our things without breaking a sweat.

I am SO grateful 💜 Not only am I relieved that the ministry was willing to help me pay for such a beautiful piece of equipment, but it is also reassuring to me that they clearly have some faith in our abilities to care for children. I don’t think they would invest as much money if they were unsure of us. So that feels good.

I’d show you pictures from the walk, but as you know, I’m not allowed. However, we are not hard to spot 🤣 So perhaps we’ll see you around.

We miss church over here. Truly, we do. There have been stages where going to church feels like a chore. I won’t lie, and you shouldn’t either, because we all know that sometimes things like that just don’t feel like priorities. However, our family has really enjoyed church when we’ve been able to go, which has been very little this year, thanks to aaaaall the brain stuff in the beginning of the year and then the summer of camping. So this weekend was the one. We were going to go. Finally.

Of course, the sickness that has grabbed onto us as school begun continues to hold on tightly, and the babies seem to be a bit worse for wear :/ A second round, perhaps. We’ve had some fevers. Some snot faucets. One impressive viral rash. Lots of crying, and lots of sleeping.

Implied sleeping, anyway. Necessary sleeping.

Brady and I had resigned to the reality that likely one of us would have to miss church to hang back with the babies.

Last night was a fun challenge. Our Lemon Drop never sleeps, as you know. Brady and I and LD were up in the middle of the night, and the power went out. It was around 2:30am. Our old house used to beep when the power went on and off. This house doesn’t beep. It more so hums. But in our room, when the power goes out, the fan turns off, as does the noise machine.

That was the kicker.

No. More. Noise.

LD was not impressed. By default, neither were we. The crying would not stop. No milk was drank. No soothers were taken. No burps erupted. Just only crying. Because tired, and because quiet. We FINALLY found some reprieve in a rattle as distraction, but it was short lived. No sleep was in sight, so we decided to put a show on the laptop to let our bodies and brains rest a little at least, whilst distracting the baby. We were willing to hotspot for the data on our phones.

But the laptop was dead.

Brady worked to get the iPad up and running and when he pulled it from his lake bag (ya, those aren’t unpacked yet) we remembered we had an older phone and a bluetooth speaker than we use for noise in the camper. We pulled it out and I brought it over to the toddlers room. They, too, sleep with noise, and they were already making noise and moving around. I snuck the speaker in their door, and within a few minutes, it also died! ACK!

The big babies were out of luck. We finally got the Lemon Drop down to rest, and we shut everything else off and tried to get some sleep. Our call to SaskPower had been fruitless, as we were apparently the only call that had come in, so they blamed our breakers. Which sucked.

When we stumbled out of bed after a very broken, short night, it had been six hours, and we still had no power.

There were not enough hours of sleep to be had to be functioning human beings, so church was off the table.

We will try again next week. Hopefully less people are sick by then, anyway.

I spent the morning trying to get more things put away. It wasn’t especially successful, hahaha! The babies alternated naps pretty badly, lol, so I mostly just carried little things from here to there and made some storage plans. Everything goes a little slower with someone on your hip, but I truly wouldn’t trade it.

I had one pumpkin on my counter that I was suspicious was maybe going bad, so I decided to cut it up and check. All was well on the inside, but then it was open! Hahaha! So I got it into the oven to make some more puree. Its out of the oven and sitting in a sieve in the sink, getting ready to get blended up.

Besides that, I actually made some progress on some Christmas stuff! After yesterday’s large shopping trip, I flattened a bunch of smaller boxes, and this morning I realized I could use them for gifts. So I pulled out some of the gifts I’ve purchased already, and I boxed them up, labelled them on painters tape who they were for, and put them high up in my closet. Boom! I felt SO productive!!

I did a little bit of sitting and crocheting this afternoon, and then I had some visitors come by, which brought so much brightness to my day!! 💜 We miss you, Rae and Tom!! Ack!! One of these weekends we’ll all be in town, but until then, this visit was really, really nice.

The kids came home from school on time. Piano practice began. I started supper. Wavy helped me peel carrots. Kids put some laundry away, and I have a bit more in the dryer that I HAVE to remember to hide before any of the kids see it because, again, Christmas 😬 Don’t let me forget, guys.

Ok. Bradys on his way home. Supper is all rolling on the stove. I just have to clear the hampers off the table (lol) and we should be good to go!!

Happy Friday, all 💜

I hit it again, guys. A beautiful day with rest and productivity all rolled into one!

I spent a few hours in the morning with Cher 💜 We haven’t seen each other for most of a week, which is virtually unheard of for us! So it was VERY precious time to get to be back in each other’s space. Sipping our coffee and tea, and catching up. It was good for the heart. Hearts, I should say.

Once Cher was off for the day, I got babies eating while I got into some of the sorting from camp stuff. I forgot to reply to a comment on the subject the other day!! I’m sorry!! We do have doubles for most everything, but I wasn’t well organized this summer and I forgot to bring tubs. So while the towels would normally stay at camp, they came home. I’m scared to leave little mouse houses available in the camper 😬 I bring all the meds and liquids home. All the fridge stuff. But LOTS of duplicates stay out there. Just, nothing cozy enough for a critter to nest in… I’m not nervous, YOU’RE nervous!

Being that I have a bunch of babies, the sorting of the meds took up the rest of the morning and a portion of the afternoon. I insisted on some sit down time during naps, but our Lemon Drop flat out just sucks at sleeping :/ Like absolutely all the way just totally unequivocally sucks. So. I tried. But it wasn’t restful for anyone.

I left the house in time to pick the kids up from school, and took everyone in for a foster visit. We did another big Walmart shop and spent a few hundred dollars on pretty much just lunch stuff 😅 Goodness. Stopped for an iced coffee as well. Had a giggle at this amazing limited time offer where a small ice cream costs more than a big ice cream 🤣

Good job, McDicks 👍

Then, we picked up, went home, and tucked in. The babies are all quiet. Most of the kids are in bed. I myself am in bed, and I’m hoping to crochet an itty bitty bit before I truly have to shut the lights off. I feel so much more myself when I get a little time to crochet in the day. Its a bit of a goal of mine, actually, to keep my craft going a little each day. Maybe. I’ll try, anyway. So many ideas, and so little time.

On top of ALL these things, we’ve had plumbers over the last two days, installing proper ventilation in the basement and getting the garage fitted for a gas heater. We anticipated three days, but today – day two – they wrapped the job. Beautifully, I might add. So that wasn’t work I had to do, but it was work being done in the house. And, let’s be honest – a different amount of on-ness. You get it. The techs were amazing and so comfortable to have around, though. Like, less than zero complaints!! Leah the Plumber killed it. Truly. I have nothing bad to say about her and her company! Amazing!

It was a big day. But its almost Friday. Tomorrow will hold work, of course, but no big deadlines, meetings, appointments, etc. So at the very least, I’ll do my work in my sweats 🙂 Sounds cozy to me!

Yesterday was large and productive while also fairly relaxed and peaceful. It was consistently busy and comfortable.

Today was another day where I worked to clean up camp stuff that is spread all over the house. However, it was vastly less peaceful and much more chaotic.

None of the babies were settled today. I got one good nap out of them and otherwise, it was a huge struggle.

The baby who happily kills time crawling around the house, chewing on their hands and chasing down toys simply was not happy on the floor today, or in bed, or even being held for that matter. Crusty, crusty baby.

The two babies who are older and more active are both climbers now, which is NEW territory for me!! Whew! Today was the kind of day where I’d drag the piano bench across the house, only to have those little punks drag it back over to the piano and climb ONTO the piano! Ugh! Only one takes it quite that far, but they work together. It was the kind of day where my coffee got poured out on the floor. Noses ran. I said “no” a lot more than I prefer. Things were noisy. Toys were thrown. Everyone survived on crackers. We kind of just got by.

However, the laundry machines ran consistently. The tables slowly got more and more cleared off. Plumbers worked downstairs and in the garage all day long. Everyone was fed. Lots of smiles were shared. A new word was even uttered by our Morsel 💜 It was a VERY good day. Less productive. Less calm. But still a day to be grateful for.

Thank you, Lord, for providing endlessly for us.

…AAAAALLLLL that junk comes home 😅

All the sheets, pillow cases, towels, bed blankets, and outdoor blankets. And and all random leftover laundry.

All the kitchen stuff. All the food from the fridge, freezer, cabinets, and tucked in all the little places people leave snacks. All the meds. All the products.

And all the other stuff! All the baggage. All the stuff we use more at the lake but can’t risk leaving there for the next eight months.

This all, of course, was only some of it.

I spent the bulk of my morning moseying through the house with a cup of coffee, moving things from point A to point B. I got laundry rolling, and got the majority of the kitchen stuff put away. I got some things that are kid-specific moved into their rooms, but I left some for them to do on their own.

I then took a break and caught up with a friend of mine from the church we used to attend. It is not a secret that we switched churches a while back, being that there are only two churches here in town. I’m sure you can imagine there has been some awkwardness. But there are a small handful of people who have made their love for our family known, regardless of our change of venue. Spending time with one of them today just felt so much like home 💜 I was very grateful for todays visit.

Speaking of visits, after school, I hauled all the kids into the city for a visit for one of our babies! Once aforementioned baby was delivered, we ran over to Walmart, as we so often do, and stocked up on some pantry items, as well as some pants for the girls, shoes for Solly, mitts for babies, and a whole schwack of other things. We met up with Brady about halfway through the shop, and then all of us went to McDs for supper, and went to pick up the once again mentioned baby.

It was a loaded day, but I’m actually really happy with how it played out. Once in a blue moon, I feel like I strike that lovely balance between working hard and being at rest, and today, I hit it. I got lots done in the house, but it didn’t feel chaotic, and I even got to visit with a friend. Then I went out in the evening, and it was productive and the kids were happy and helpful. Baby was happy when dropped off, and picked up.

It was a nice day. I anticipate many more to come. Days of work and of rest. At least rest-ish. I’m not picky 😅