Its felt like a long week, and no one had ANY energy to make supper. But, believe it or not, everybodys gotta eat. Brady, Cher, and I had a supper plan to eat while we watched a movie night. This has not happened in MONTHS, so it felt kind of sacred. So we knew our plan, but not the kids.
So we decided, since they weren’t getting pizza hut and cake, they should get a different treat supper. And thankfully have some pretty delicious things in our house!
The plan was popcorn for supper. Brady makes amazing stove top popcorn, and its only gotten better since we were gifted a whole Scheiders gourmet popcorn popper set! That was an INCREDIBLE gift! Its changed the popcorn game that we didn’t know could get any better than it already was! A huge win!
While Brady made popcorn, I got it into my head that they needed something a bit more filling with it. So I scooped a huge blob of peanut butter into a bowl and threw in a handful of chocolate chips. Melted it down as I chopped up an apple for each kid. (PS have you noticed many apple bags now only have about ten apples in them?? That is literally gone in two days in my house…)
Supper went over well.
Dekker doesn’t look impressed, but he was, I promise.
The kids EASILY ate the whole apple each, and a couple of bowls of popcorn. It was a delicious supper, and one I didn’t even feel that guilty about serving them. It was also really refreshing not having to argue with anyone to convince them to eat it. SUCH a win.
Ours was still better 💜
Pineapple pop takes me back to Philadelphia… SUCH a treat!
Don’t worry, Brady thought it was funny 🙂 And completely delicious.
We watched the first half of Hamilton, which we haven’t done in months, but feels like decades. We enjoyed it so much, and the kids enjoyed listening to it.
I didn’t have anything crazy planned for Brady’s birthday. We’re both a touch limited these days, and while we carry the pressure and stress better than we used to, its still heavy. So I knew we’d keep it simple, and that was ok. The main events were going to be a run to the city where Brady could go pick up his gift, and then a yummy supper after the kids went down for bed.
First thing was first, though. Cher brought donuts and coffee once the kids were gone to school, and the three of us chatted for a bit. Wavy hung around, and got a bite here and there. She is SO easy to add to the mix. It wasn’t a long coffee though, because we had to head to Saskatoon and Cher had to study. So we went our separate by mid-morning.
It turned into a bit of an errand day, but we had a good time. Wavy rocked ALL the patterns, yet somehow her eyes still stole the show!! 😍 How does she do that?!
We hit Walmart, because I needed some yarn. Yes, before anyone says it, I KNOW I have lots! But I have a couple of orders to fill (eek!!!) and I need specific things. Also, the kids needed jeans, and Walmart jeans are actually awesome, and cheap. Who knew?? So we got jeans. And yarn. You may have seen it on Insta.
When all the things on my list are completed and I can make time to crochet something for ME, I have biiiiig purple goals. Ack!
Once we were done with Walmart, we headed too……. *drumroll*
Lee Valley!!
Brady has a big ole infatuation with Lee Valley since he got so invested in woodworking. He’s had his eye on a few different items for a while now, but we don’t have as much of a disposable income as we did once, so he’s been graciously holding off on buying new things and working on things he has already. Yesterday, I told him he should finally buy that particular chisel set he’s been eyeing up. Paired with some birthday money he received otherwise, he was able to buy another item he’s been wanting – a pull saw. Its basically a machete, let’s be real. He was SO excited.
Thankfully, Wavy needed a shorty nap when we got home, so Brady could unpack his stuff and actually check it out.
I’m confident he’ll tell you more about this stuff later. He already did a little! Follow him on his woodworking pages if you want to seeeee!! ICS Woodworking on Fb and Insta!
Wavy was not ready to get up when the kids got home, but it had to be done.
Unrelated side note: She is loving her big girl bed. She never gets out of it. She sometimes walks on it, or sits up and gets silly and hyper, but she did the same in her crib. She is SO obedient in it. Though now that I’m saying it, you know its all over, lol!
Later in the afternoon, a loving friend came by our house with a stack of books for our children 💜 Completely unprompted, she had decided to buy everyone a new book, and had even had a covert convo with one of our kids to find out what they would like. SUCH a huge win! 🥺 I am continually overwhelmed by people remembering our family and continuing to put into us even when we seem “all better.” I was truly touched by this gift.
The kids had KD for supper, and Brady and I prepped a bit to eat later. I chose for us to have steak and potatoes, which is a rare treat for us, and Brady’s favorite thing. We have barely ever made steak, so its a HUGE treat. We made it count, though, and Brady whipped up a marinade for a foolish amount of meat. But hey. It was a birthday. Meanwhile, I tried a new potato recipe.
And it all worked out!! It may not look beautiful but it sure tasted beautiful!
So what you have here are crispy parm potatoes, and striploin steak, medium rare, with blue cheese crumbled on top. 😵 Best of all, it was ALL easy.
So Brady and I ate our body weight in meat and potatoes, and then remained fat and lazy for the rest of the evening, groaning with every move we made. It was so worth it, though. I was so thrilled to be able to actually eat and enjoy the food! Small victories.
I think I can safely say that Brady had a good birthday. Welcome to 33, sweet man! Let’s try and calm down the drama for this next one…..
We had crushed a season of hard work and had come out strong. We were on top of the world in a lot of ways.
Brady’s 33rd year of life has been unlike anything we ever had expected, and nothing we ever planned for. Who plans for these things. No one, and they shouldn’t. You cannot waste your time worrying about “what ifs” because it would steal your joy from what actually happens.
I don’t want this post to be about what we “lost.”
To go with last years theme, this year on Brady’s birthday, we find ourselves crushing a season of even harder work, and we are coming out even stronger!!! ALL glory is Gods, but we are proud to be His people!
I can say with confidence that Brady is NO less of a man since his surgery and subsequent injury and diagnoses. If anything, he is stronger! Save for that right leg, of course 😉
He may have gotten woodworking tools and steak as gifts, but his real gift, I would say, was the new perspective he gained over the last year. Its been eye opening. Our marriage was truly quite happy and healthy last year, at least in my opinion, but it is only better now 💜We have both worked HARD to settle into our new roles with one another and with our family, and God continues to bless us with contentment and comfort us in our times of trial.
Brady my love, I would walk through fire for you. And I know you would do the same for me. Except you’d roll. Because thats how you do 😏
I love you, sweet man! Let’s take your first 33 and do them twice more over! Deal? Deal.
Dekker and Solomon have been lovingly labelled here at home as the downstairs boys. They share a room in our basement, so the boot fits. Its a good setup, because first off, Rowan really benefits from having his own room at this point, and secondly, Dekker and Solly are both sweaty dudes, and our basement stays cooler. So its perfect.
I get the downstairs boys up every morning. Oftentimes, I open their door and both boys immediately burst from their beds and we share a big group hug. It is the BEST greeting! They’re both so cute, in their little gitch, snugging up close with me and each other. Seriously, one of the softest hugs I get all day.
Sometimes, Solly jumps out of bed and greets me, but Dekker stays in bed. Which makes sense, because Solly often wakes up earlier than Dekker and chats at full volume, waking Dekker. In those cases, I hug Solly good and proper, and then we both go jump on Dekker. He loves that. Truly.
This morning was really special, though. Both boys has just woken up when I opened their door. Solly had sat up and Dekker was laying down. I went to Solly first. His hair was all ruffled and he was rubbing his eyes. I sat on his bed and reached up to touch his head. He nuzzled my hand like a puppy, so I stroked his cheek and he leaned into it. I cupped his little face and placed my cheek against his. It was such a soft, quiet moment. I truly don’t think I’ll ever forget it. After a couple of minutes, I moved over to Dekker’s bed. He was still laying down. I didn’t have as much access to his face, so I opted for a head scratch. He sighed a little and lay perfectly still. I said good morning and told him I loved him. His eyes remained closed, but he smiled at me. I massaged that big ole head for a minute or two before I conceded to our schedule and told the boys it was time to get up. No one groaned at me or complained. They both started moving around in the dark. I cracked the curtains open and everyone got really squinty, but again, no complaints.
Please, check your “wait until their teenagers” comments at the door. l will take all the early morning softness I can get from my kids. I choose to believe it keeps getting better. If these snuggly mornings are any indication of what is to come, I am IN.
My beautiful downstairs boys, it is an honour to be the first person to see you every morning and the last person to see you in the evening. You are so dear to my heart.
Is anyone else having a super hard time keeping the days of the week straight??
The schools had Thursday, September 30th, off before they went back for one day. That alone really turned me around because after their one day of school, they came back for the weekend! Go figure. It took my poor brain a little too long to sort that all out.
Now, we’ve had a long weekend. Four days. It wasn’t our smoothest weekend, though not our rockiest, but I will be honest in saying it felt like a weekend, and then a whole other weekend, but one where the kids were just grossly disinterested in just about everything. Its been a strange time, haha! 🙃Sooooo much on the brain for ALL of us with no end in sight! No rest.
Its possible that, if I wound up in the neuro ward where Brady stayed for eight days post-op in February, I’d fail their test. Everyday, they would ask their patients questions to judge their neurological ability. Do you know where you are? Do you know what year it is? That kind of thing. Today, I could not tell you a lot. But I think my brain has been on overload and now that I suddenly only have one kid to look after, my poor brain doesn’t know what to do with itself.
I hope, when/if the day comes when I need caregivers and they have to ask me those questions, I can hold contentment and peace with not knowing the answer. Like one of Brady’s roommates.
Do you know where you are? No….. Do you think you’re in a shopping mall, or a hospital? A shopping mall. Ok, and do you know what day it is? Its two thousand aaaaaaand… somethin’.
ZERO disrespect. Quite the contrary. I love the simplicity, and how calm he was about it all. Today, I feel a bit like that guy. And I’m not mad at it.
I’ve been working up a crochet storm of orders and Christmas gifts recently. I’ve also disassembled a blanket that was made of 240 squares because I didn’t like the method I had used to connect the squares, so I’ll have the pleasure of reassembling it soon 😆😩 But it’ll be ok. I researched and learned a new method just yesterday, and while it seems like its going to take a while, it is sooooo much better than how I was attaching patchwork blankets, so I’m calling it a win.
I started a project yesterday, and our robot vacuum, Meryl, tried to crochet it for me overnight.
*sigh*
Meryl sucks at crocheting.
So that was a bit of a rude awakening but thankfully, she pulled more yarn out of the skeins than my project. Just a little untangling and I was good to go! I was confident that the toque I was making was going to be too small for its intended recipient, but lo and behold, it was PERFECT!!!
Its a little tall, but I like that. You know when its windy and it freezes RIGHT between your eyes? I want it to be good and pull-downable. You get it.
After this toque was done and done, we brewed some more coffee and I got onto the next!
I’m having flashbacks to making Cher’s Christmas blanket. Its going to be fun to revisit that! Though it’ll be attached nicer than Chers. 😬Sorry, girl.
I will leave you with the dumbest thing possible that I laughed WAY too hard over. A legit lol, where I laughed WAY too loud for WAY too long.
You’re welcome 😆
Have a beautiful last day of your long weekend 💜 I am thankful to have so many of you following along and supporting us in the many ways you do.
Cher and I have been friends for FOUR years! Today, we are extra thankful for one another and the beautiful relationship we have built. Absolutely ALL glory goes to God! If not for him, neither of us would still be standing, much less together.
In our four years of friendship, we have both suffered an incredible amount of trauma! I hope anyone reading this can know my saying that is not a cry for attention, but a straight up fact. Its said that when tragedy strikes, you find out who your true friends are. While I don’t feel I’ve lost anyone in the process of our trauma, it is GOD who kept Cher and I bonded as closely as we are. I am immensely grateful and honoured to have her in my life, as part of my family, to be part of hers.
We celebrated with baked oatmeal for breakfast, courtesy of Brady…
And cake for lunch! Courtesy of Cher.
Don’t worry. I cut it. That was my part in this.
I know. I did a great job.
Our years of close friendship have not been without struggle, yet we haven’t faltered. And the ONLY reason for this is God remaining at the centre of it all.
Covid cannot ruin us. Surgery cannot ruin us. Suicide cannot ruin us. Physical pain cannot ruin us. Grief cannot ruin us. Cancer cannot ruin us. University cannot ruin us. Unreasonable amounts of hormone-fuelled girl fights cannot ruin us.
Christ is for us, so no one can be against us. The enemy is defeated, and carries NO HOLD on us!
Wavy got a new bed a while back already, but we haven’t had the nerve to set it up yet. She’s been in a crib this whole time, so going from that to a big girl bed gives her a LOT of freedom, and we were hesitant to open that door until recently. As we have about a million projects swirling in our brains these days, the great garage purge/reorganize has begun! And with that, Wavy’s bed was time to make its way into her room.
Brady disassembled her crib and I hauled the pieces out. Then I brought in the board to lay in the new frame, and then Dekker helped me carry it inside.
I am SO thankful for God’s timing. Brady is not able to help me carry heavy things up and down the stairs, but Dekker is old enough and excited to help! While I’ll admit that sometimes doing all the legwork in these scenarios leaves me feeling a little bit lonely, I am overwhelmingly grateful for a kid who wants to help, is able to help, and a husband who has taught him by example.
Waverly was SO happy with her new bed. 😍
Her first comments were about how much she liked her bed, and that she was not going to get out of it during the night or naps.
She went down for naps easily, excited to snuggle in her “big bed yike Yayas.”
Aaaaand she DID fall asleep!!!
I’m calling this a great success! We’ll see how the night goes, but I’m confident that Laela will be eagerly coming upstairs to rat her out if she steps out of line 😆What are big sisters for, right?
Its been a good day. Lots to organize. Lots to accomplish. Lots of rest still needed.
We don’t always do a lot in the day, and I find I either have waaay too much to talk about, or literally nothing to talk about, or a whole heap of stuff I can’t talk about. You might’ve noticed my blog has changed a lot in the recent months to match the ebb and flow of our life. Thank you for bearing with me!
Unrelated. Folks, it is “bear” with me. Not “bare.” “Bare with me” suggests getting naked together. I promise. Look it up. Spell it right.
We finally have a little bit to show for our last couple of days, so behold. Pictures of those things.
Two days ago, Brady and I took Wavy and Solly on a drive to Zaks Home Hardware in Warman in an effort to break up the day a little. We had good music. Brought treats. I crocheted, as always.
Brady is amped about some woodworking projects, and needed a couple of things to get started. Know what we went for?
Yes. Giant chopsticks. Not actually, but almost. Also a couple of other things, but these were the main point of the trip.
Yesterday was a cute, relaxed day, too. Wavy was ULTRA sweet with her little ponytail.
Brady went to outpatient physio and occupational therapy on his own, which was new and exciting 🙂 Meanwhile, Cher came over and helped me rip apart a big crochet project because I wasn’t happy with the outcome. *sigh* It helped to have a friend. We watched a movie. Wavy looked so fly.
Girls got chocolate on her face from muffin breakfast
After physio, Brady hit Walmart for me to grab some yarn for a really exciting order I received!!
Who doesn’t love that red and black buffalo plaid?! 😍
Sixteen balls of yarn made it easy to justify a quick Home Depot run for him, and he got a few other small things he needed to kick off some projects. No pictures of that particular haul, sorry folks! You’ll just have to take my word for it.
The day went on like normal after that, and our family enjoyed a walk before bedtime.
Wavy learned how to skip. It is the BEST. Her knees go SO high, and her arms are WAY up in the air as she skips. I wish I had a picture but it was all captured on video. Tooooo bad.
By the end of the day, everyone was good and wiped out. Most of them were asleep by the time we put Dekker dow.
Wavy and her little piggy tho 😍I believe we’ll be moving her into her big girl bed this weekend. I know its a long time coming, but goodness. I can’t believe we’re going to be crib-less. What a strange time of life we’re in…
I hope you all have a happy long weekend, and whether you have fancy food or microwave dinners, whether you’re in a big group on on your own, whether you’re thriving or suffering, whatever the case may be, I hope you find a moment to reflect, and take note of what you’re thankful for without turning it around to see where your life lacks. Focus on the important things, if just for a moment, sometime this weekend. Or today. Or every day. Whatever you have the mental energy for. There is no judgement here.
I had a super bizarre moment a couple of days ago.
It started with eggs, of which we had a LOT. We eat a lot of eggs over here, and we had fallen behind eating them. Not too far behind, but far enough that I got it into my head that we should make something that uses eggs that I don’t usually make, so that, if its a total flop, I don’t feel as wasteful. Don’t come at me, I know this doesn’t make sense.
Meringues came to mind. Also don’t come at me. They don’t use as many eggs as I thought they did. But I had never made them, so I went forward with it.
Quickly I came to see that most recipes are a liiiiittle nitpicky, which is NOT my kind of recipe. But I did it anyway! Woohoo!
And guys, they worked!!
Loooook! I did it!!
They’re not perfect, but they’re YUMMY! Brady could not get enough, which made me feel sooooo good!
I know meringues are not everyone’s favorite thing, but they were delicious and well liked over here. Didn’t taste eggy at all. I will absolutely be making them again! Especially when I accidentally left them in the oven for 45 minutes longer than I meant to… That is MY kind of baking!
Are you for or against these bizarre crispy delights? Honest answer!
