In a special turn of events, Jerilee came out to visit for the afternoon! We usually hang out about once a week, watch trashy tv, and eat delicious food. Its so fun. I love our tradition. But a day date, free of tv, is so refreshing, and felt much needed today.
We just sat, in a quiet, kid-free, living room, and caught up. It feels like its been a while. We both had fun things to talk about, funny stories we had missed sharing, a few more practical things, and some discouragements. It was a full conversation, and it felt great.
I miss those days. We used to have day dates all the time when we lived in Radisson, believe it or not! She would show up with a tray of Starbucks drinks, one for me, one for her, and two empty cups, complete with lids, sleeves, and the little spout pokey things. Dekker and Laela would head right for her and accept their bevvies, and we would enjoy ours while they played. This felt like that.
While my afternoon was so lovely and uplifting, Dekker came home struggling hard, and has been a ball of tears for most of his time here at home. Lots of needing to go take a break on his own accord. Lots of big emotions. It sounds like some days home from school are timed just perfectly for our little group over here. If you’re looking for us, we’ll probably be at home, in our sweats, watching Christmas movies. (YES! Christmas! I said it! Leave it alone!) I think the doctor ordered some R&R for our group, so I think I’m going to let that happen.
Bring on the snuggles!