Track Day 2019: Two Kids

It was our first experience having two children’s events to follow on track and field day! It was a whole other dynamic, but thankfully, Brady could come along, so we were able to split up when necessary.

We all began at the high school track for the dash. Its the 100m dash if you’re older, and some little bitty version of the dash if you’re in kindergarten 😉 It was an interesting – though not surprising – dynamic for me to watch both of my children do their activities. The reality of the situation is that Dekker hasn’t stretched yet, and doesn’t keep up the same way. His big feelings come out hard when he doesn’t place where he wants, which was hard to watch. But he did well at the dash 🙂 I was very proud of how he ran! Laela ran her first dash this year as well, and as many people pointed out to me after the fact, that girl is a runner!! She wore a HUGE smile the whole time, and kept up well! She placed high up in her group, and even got to run a second heat. She was just beaming. It was awesome 🙂

From there, Rowan and I followed Laela’s group to running long jump, and Brady kept Solly and Waverly at the track for Dekker’s 400m. While I wasn’t there, I hear he finished his race, which is more than can be said for me, I’m sure! Laela was nervous of running long jump, having told me this morning that it was hard for her to coordinate where to land. But she ran it, and she did an excellent job!

Brady and the others came and caught the end of Laela’s long jump, and then we split off again! Laela had ball throw, and specifically requested I join her. So I took Solly and Wavy this time, and Brady took Rowan to watch Dekker do shuttle runs. Dekker had been the most excited about shuttle runs, and he excelled at it! Yay Dekker!!! Laela maintained a happy face through ball throw as well, but she was probably least excited about it.

Then the kids schedules alternated, so we were able to go to Dekker’s standing broad jump all together. He was doing well, making good strides, but it became clear the the little kids needed to call it for the morning. Brady took them home, so I could stay and finish out the day. Last year, I had been the one to take the kids home, so I didn’t feel too bad about it. Dekker finished up his jumps very well, and then I headed over to catch Laela’s standing broad jump at a different area of the school yard. She also did really well!

Laela headed in for the rest of the day. I visited with some friends while the kids ate lunch, and then I followed Dekker around to his last couple of events. Unfortunately, things were a bit difficult after that. Dekker was SO overtired, and while he enjoyed the ball throwing event to its fullest, he was very discouraged with where he placed. He cried and waved his green ribbon at me from the side :/ It was sad. But there was a break between that event and his final event, so he rallied and played on the playground and perked up a bit.

His final event was running long jump, and he did awesome! He didn’t fall or slip. His first run, he noticed his shoe had come open, and he stopped to fix it and ran back to the beginning without any pause or disappointment. He just rolled with it. It was awesome 🙂 I did, however, leave him in tears. He was mad that he would have to walk home after school, and promised me he’d be super angry for the rest of the day. His poor overdone self just hates disappointment 🙁 So I gave him a hug and a kiss and headed home, even though he was sad. Because sometimes we do hard things.

My little track stars did SUCH a beautiful job today! It was really a happy day of accomplishment and excitement! I feel so grateful to be able to be at these school events, and that Brady has the flexibility to come along as well! I really loved today.

Funny, Unimportant Milestones

I always look forward to this one, so while it probably matters to no one else but me, its my blog! Hahaha! So I’m recording it!

Waverly started finding her reflection in the kitchen appliances yesterday. 😂 Specifically, the fridge.

And then she found me in it, too!

I love these funny little things so much. I remember when Solly discovered the dishwasher. He’d stare at himself, and back at us, and back at himself. And then he discovered he could drag his hand along it for a satisfying squeaky sound. I’m looking forward to that 🙂

While I Was Away This Morning

I was gone for a few hours this morning, and these were the photos I received. Don’t worry, I’ll caption them a bit.

So Miss Waverly loves to pull up on everything these days. Now unfortunately I don’t have a picture of this specific event, but this morning, Wavy pulled up on her little music table and ended up using it as a walker, and made her way a few feet before she slipped and plunked down. But, guys, its going to happen…

Brady took the kids out for a bit, but it didn’t last long with the crazy wind. They occupied themselves in the garage for a bit.

The kids got some lunch and naps began for the little ones. Dekker and Laela stayed up and played some Lego, and Wavy tried to play with epsom salts…

Don’t worry, Brady put a stop to it and tried to keep her occupied.

She was over it, though, and went to hang out with the others…

Waverly was down for her nap by the time I got home, but I’m positive I’ll see her again soon 🙂 Everyone else is up and its bath time!

I’m already so hungry for supper!

The Saturdayest Friday

So yesterday – Thursday – was such a Friday. You know those days? Our family went to a birthday party, ate treats, and stayed out past the kids bedtimes. We knew Brady was home the next day (today) and everything. It just felt like a Friday. The Fridayest Thursday ever.

Today feels very much like a Saturday, except for the fact that Dekker is at school! The rest of us are together, and we spent the morning doing a big, overdue grocery shop. We’re trying to be better at eating the food we have on hand, and not always just buying the food we’re hungry for in the moment. But this week got tricky as we ran out of fresh stuff altogether, and even got low on some pantry stuff. I feel like we never run out of our canned goods, but when I used the last tin of tomato sauce on tacos, I knew it was time to stock back up. Also, cheese. Can anyone else not survive a day without eating cheese??? Its next to impossible over here.

In fact, I highly recommend you try this.

Yup, its what you you think it is. Waffle grilled cheese. Make a waffle, and then once its done, throw some cheese in there while its still int he waffle maker, fold it in half, and give it another moment in there to get all gooey. You won’t be disappointed. Neither will your children. These suckers melt in your mouth, no word of a lie.

Aaaaanyway, back to our shop. We. Bought. Everything. Even indulged in one or two things. Don’t worry, we made them earn it.

Lots of people at Costco recognize us, whether because of our kids or my hair or something else. Today, one of the ladies that passes out samples stopped up to chat and flirt with Rowan, and said she remembered us. Fun fact, though. We don’t usually take advantage of the samples!!! So she’s just seen us in passing!! I thought that was pretty crazy, and kind of hilarious. Also kind of terrifying to know if we ever do something super embarrassing in public, someone is gonna know…

We’re home now, and naps are in the works. Perogies, sausage, and roasted veggies are on the menu tonight!

And maybe some cheese puffs, just so they shut their little cheesy mouths and stop taunting me.

Solomon’s Name

Considering Solly’s birthday just happened, this seems like an appropriate time to share the story of how we named him! For some reason, its taking a lot out of me to share this one. We pour HARD over our kids names, and I hate to put out there that I’m not happy with him. I AM! TRULY! So please, nothing but love.

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I feel like I have to be careful with how I tell the story of Solomon’s name. Please take the obvious things with a grain of salt. The reality is that “Solomon” was not my first choice. It wasn’t my second, either. I LOVE his name, it suits him SO well, and I wouldn’t change it. But, at the time, it felt like we had to settle by choosing his name. 

When we found out we were having another boy, we were stumped for names! Rowan’s name had been hard enough to nail down, and now we had to figure out yet another boys name! Does anyone else agree that boys are SO hard to name?? 

We toyed with a few names that we kiiiiinda sorta liked, but nothing stood out as an actual contender. We had tossed around Sullivan a number of times, but for a handful of reasons, we knew we couldn’t have a Sully. WE liked Sully, but we knew some important people didn’t, and we couldn’t use it. It wasn’t long after we vetoed Sullivan that I got “Sam” into my head. I loved the idea of having a Sam, but I wanted to go in a different direction than Samuel. When “Sampson” came to mind, I was SOLD. I LOVED that name! It felt like everything we strived for when naming children. A good name for a baby, a kid, a teen, and an adult. A soft name, but a strong name. It was perfect. I was instantly attached to it. That was it. That was my sons name. 

Except that, for my own personal reasons, I knew we couldn’t do that :/ Not everything needs to be on the internet, but I knew we couldn’t have a Sampson. We all have different name associations that play into names we like and dislike, and I knew it would just grind away at me. I was pretty devastated. Because there went my dream of having a Sam. I’m still a little sad about it, if I’m being honest.

I’m not sure how Solomon actually came to mind, but I understood right away why I liked it. It sounded a lot like Sullivan, but maybe a little softer? I’m not sure. We knew we were on the right track with it, but we considered for a long time whether to name him Solomon, or just Saul. At the time, thats what I figured we’d call him. We had never named a kid something while intending to exclusively call them something else. But as I mentioned in Rowan’s post, we have intentionally not chosen one syllable names for our children. While we obviously ended up settling on Solomon, we had every intention to only ever really call him Sol. 

And then he was born, and he was Solly. It was perfect.

His middle name was SO hard to nail down! Neither Brady nor I felt strongly about naming our children after ourselves. So our names never showed up on our lists of possibilities for baby names. I remember pairing Solomon with “Brady” in my head one day and just simply knowing that this was going to be it. But I knew Brady wouldn’t like it at first. I prepared myself, and presented him with the idea that night while soaking in a hot tub. As predicted, it was met with a “Yaaaa…I don’t know…” but I asked him to just mull it for a bit, or even just forget it, but don’t veto it completely. Obviously, we did end up deciding on Brady’s name as Solly’s middle name, but Brady was never fully excitedly sold on it. He knew it was the right fit, it was PERFECT, but it went against his grain to name a kid after himself. Still, I’m pretty confident he wouldn’t change it 🙂 Its exactly right. And how perfect is it that Solomon ended up being the kid that looked so much like Brady?! Talk about an appropriate namesake!

Maybe they don’t look super similar here, but I couldn’t resist adding this picture!

A handful of people in his life (Rowan included) have dubbed him as Sol, which makes my heart pretty happy, honestly. The kids also alternate between Solly and Solomon, too, and I also love that, because he’s growing up knowing both. We don’t just love calling him Solly, but we love his real name, too. He also answers to Wolly, Wolomon, and far too many other names. He loves calling himself Solly Wolly 🙂

I’m SO happy with the name we ended up with, even though it felt like a second or even third choice at the time. It all boils down to this. Solomon’s name is PERFECT for exactly the boy he is! 

A Picnic With Dekker

The elementary school held a “Family Reading Lunch” event, where families were invited to join their kid for lunch and reading. They do it a couple of times a year, and we usually work pretty hard to get there, even if its just one of us. Today, that was the case. Brady was home, and the other kids were lagging hard through their lunches, so I went on my own. Usually, we find a spot to sit in the hallway, but this time, we ventured outside.

(Yes, I know my hair looks fly.)

We sat together while he ate in the wind. At one point, I pulled a “Look over there” and took a bite of his sandwich that he held in his hand. He laughed so hard, he could not get it back together! It was so funny 🙂

Once he had eaten and we’d read a couple of the books he brought out with us, he took to the swings. I gave him an under-duck, which I have not done in YEARS! He was so stoked, and laughed and kicked his legs and celebrated. He was super happy.

He spent a nice little half hour in the sun together before I went home and he continued on with his day. You know I needed that sun…

He does he tan SO much nicer than I do?? He’s his fathers son, thats for sure.

But obviously, the higher priority was the one on one time, and I truly enjoyed that, too. I like that he’s still young enough that he kisses me on the lips before he bolts off to play. He told me all about his day and whats to come. We talked about track and field day, and what he’s excited about. It was good to touch base intentionally with him.

Was lovely to spend lunch with you, Dekker!

The Day We Moved Home

This day will always be reminiscent for me, and I feel like I’ve talked about it with friends a lot recently. And since you guys are my friends, also, I wanted to share some memories with you 🙂

On this day, June 4th, three years ago, we moved into this beautiful home!

Crazy how bang on it is, hey??

It was instantly home. This house in this town was home long before we actually moved here.

We got the keys on June 3rd. That day, we grabbed a box I had prepared and took it to the house. It had toilet paper, paper towel, hand towels, soaps, and everything we’d need accessible to the people who were coming to help with the move. It also had kids toothbrushes and stuff, in case nothing ended up getting unpacked. I felt pretty organized. Embarrassingly organized, in fact. I was so ready. Knowing we were going to move so soon after having a baby, I planned everything down to the detail. I had drawn a diagram of my kitchen, stating what I wanted where, so it didn’t take very much brain power on the day of. Yup. I was that girl.

In 2016, June 4th fell on a Saturday, and it was the parade Saturday of our towns celebration weekend. It wasn’t perfect planning, thats for sure, since we would clearly anticipate having less help from our local friends. But we had lots of other people offer to help. We had trucks and trailers and willing helpers, plus a heap of people who promised to drop by if they had time.

On the day, we woke up in our little cabin by Lawson and got the kids settled eating breakfast just in time for them to not be underfoot when our moving help showed up. Everyone started showing up at the times we had arranged, and the work began! Jerilee came with a long coffee order for everyone, and occupied the kids while I delegated work and held Solomon. Remember, he was four days old at that point. It was a surprisingly smooth operation. Once the move was in action, I drove home.

I didn’t beat anyone by much time. Just long enough to really do a lap and realize we were finally where we belonged. It. Was. Surreal. I snapped out of my daydream when the trucks all pulled up and so many willing hands began the task of getting stuff inside. Our poor friends, though. Everything was in and settled, and Brady reminded them we still had a storage unit to tackle! Whoops!

The move bustled along, and I was basically useless, but I didn’t feel a moment of guilt because there just wasn’t an opportunity! The moving never stopped, and our group was the exact right group. Everyone who was helping was motivated, efficient, and happy to be there. No one complained, they all reassured me I shouldn’t be helping, etc.

My plan had been to make pulled pork on a bun for our friends, but my mom instead offered to bring us pizza. Yet another weight lifted off my load.

As the afternoon wore on, I was more and more touched by the people of this town. These people had places to be, but SO MANY PEOPLE came through our place, even just for a little bit, and lent a hand getting our stuff settled. I remember sitting in my recliner, rocking Solly, and telling the people in my kitchen I was so embarrassed by my little drawing. They said over and over how perfect it actually was, because it wouldn’t be a scenario where I’d have to go back and rearrange everything after. And they were right.

People set up the kitchen. They arranged the food in the pantry. They put beds in the right rooms and put bedding on them. They put clothes in closets. They made my home feel like I could actually live there. Like I could get up in the morning and do what needed doing without having to dig into a bunch of boxes. When aaaaall the crazy of the day died down, Jerilee took stock of what was hanging around on our dining table and island, and moved a few things against a wall so those spaces were usable. That was literally the last piece of the puzzle leaving me feeling overwhelmed. What amazing people we have.

Our pastor and his family moved into town on the exact same day, yet they found their way over to our house somehow to see if we needed any more help! An aunt and uncle even showed up unexpectedly with big pans of cinnamon buns for us!

We were just showered with love upon our arrival, and it feels like its never really stopped.

Thanks, Cher, for this picture! We should relive it on the last day of school…

I’ve said it a lot but I’ll say it again. I go back and forth between total disbelief that we live here, and feeling like we always have. Its ours?? Its ours!!! Maybe not everyone would love to live here, but its so very perfect for us. Moving day is not a well documented day in terms of pictures, but it is such a vivid memory for me. I don’t think I’ll ever forget it.

No more moving for a long, long time!

This Morning Before School

For some reason, the kids were done breakfast and washing up much earlier than usual. Not like early early, but before 8:00. I’m often left hounding them to finish around then, leaving so little time for organizing backpacks, getting dressed and brushed, etc. But not today! Today Dekker was completely packed and ready for school, and even made his own lunch, long before 8:00!

In true Dekker form, he headed to his bedroom and surfaced with a half-finished card from yesterday, and got to work on it. Its a very intricate design. He settled at the island with his paper and a bag of markers. As it often happens, he was almost immediately joined by his siblings.

He and Laela were sharing the markers, which isn’t always smooth, but today, was SO nice. Before Laela selected her marker, she asked him “Dekker, did you need purple next?” He admitted that it was the next color he wanted, but he said she could use it first. She surprised me by rushing back over to the coloring stuff in search of a second purple marker. Dekker had a moment of hesitation, and said he wanted his whole card to be make with smelly markers, and Laela said she’d use the one that didn’t smell. 😁 I was SO touched by this interaction, as small as it may seem. Its just, selflessness. In KIDS! Its hard to find, at least over here! But that one time that it happens in the midst of aaaaall the times that it doesn’t helps my heart so much. Its in there!! They KNOW the lesson! Its just hard sometimes. And I can really relate to that, also. Even as an adult, its not always easy to be selfless. Selfish is SO much easier!

I was excited to share this story on the blog, so I asked Dekker and Laela if I could take their picture.

I then backed up to include Rowan in the picture. They are SO familiar with being photographed, haha! Ro sat still for maybe half a second before he made his move on Dekker 😆

The others took their cue from Rowan, and the picture just got better and better.

I am SO proud of my kids. Its these moments that remind me that this is worth the work. That I’m not doing my children harm by having many of them. I am giving them lifelong friends, even when they argue and get tired of one another. I am SO fortunate to be able to pour into these beautiful little humans every day. I’m excited to see who they grow up to be!!!

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I want to keep nurturing this little time that these three spend at the island, coloring, writing, etc. through summer. Do any of you know where to find some good activity books for young kids that don’t break the bank? Academic and/or playful 🙂 Preschool up to grade 2/3. Let me know!!

Eleven Months of Waverly

I’m sure you’ve heard it, but time moves quickly when you have children! Especially babies, whose development you watch so closely. They don’t tell you it speeds up with each consecutive child, but it does, so watch out! With that in mind, you can understand how each month is a big month for Waverly. But guys, this month felt HUGE!!! SO MUCH has changed!!!

Wavy has gained only about 6 oz, putting her at about 20 lbs 12 oz (according to our home scale.) She seems SO tanky, but she’s also stretching out before our very eyes! Her knees are my favorite. 😍

She finally popped another tooth (May 31st) to join that funny group of three on her bottom gums!

We’ve recently discovered her little body has eczema! So we’re working on those little spots and her poor little cheeks. Luckily, she’s not been scratching at anything so I don’t think she’s bothered by it 🙂

And if you can’t tell by these pictures already, Wavy’s hair keeps growing and growing! We almost always have it in a ponytail now, not only because its cute but because she needs to be able to see. The cute factor doesn’t hurt tho!

Waverly’s sleeping routine hasn’t been excellent this last month, honestly. She’s waking up more and more, pulling some newborn stuff that we could all do without. But we’re working with it! The last week or so has been better, with only one nightly wakeup. She only drinks bottles maaaybe four times a day, because she is SO over the baby thing. I, however, am not. 😩 How dare she be ready to grow up already! So besides sleeping, the rest of her routine is very much like ours. She eats at the table at every meal, and usually just naps the one time after lunch, when the boys nap. She fits in so well.

I saved Waverly’s development for last. She has hit so many exciting milestones this month! She began army crawling on May 10th, and has since figured out how to use her knees effectively.

She started by juuust dragging herself an inch or two to what she wanted, but now she’ll crawl all over the place in search of adventure. She is our earliest crawler! None of our kids have been eager to get moving, so this has been very exciting for us to watch 🙂 Didn’t make for the easiest photoshoot though! Haha!

This grumpy face is also my favorite!

Almost immediately upon learning to crawl, Wavy learned how to sit up from laying down. While I’ll miss her “french girl” pose, I like that she’s getting so much more stable.

We thought her sitting up when she was supposed to be sleeping was an obstacle, but thats nothing compared to pulling up! Ya, she does that now, too! Like it just happened, on May 26th. She pulled up in the tub, of all places. She bellowed and banged on the side of the tub in celebration! It was so awesome 🙂 She still gets stuck sometimes, but its getting better.

Beyond all the developmental milestones based around movement, she continues to change! She finally embraced the straw sippy cup so we’re getting more fluids into her, finally! She nods and shakes her head at appropriate times, waves often, and even blows kisses! She says mama, dada, done, hi, and even has said “ni ni” at nap time once or twice. None of these “tricks” are foolproof, of course. They’re all dependant on her mood. But she knows them all 🙂 We have also seen the very beginning of her mimicking us, and doing what we do. Its AWESOME.

Waverly is welcoming, warm, cooperative, playful, and smart. At the parade yesterday, people would throw candy and the kids would race to gather it, and Wavy would shriek and jump in excitement! Next year, I anticipate she’ll be in the thick of it, alongside her siblings, cousins, and friends.

What are you doing to do next, girlfriend?

Praise the Lord for eleven months with Waverly!

Solly’s Birthday Party

Yesterday was Solly’s birthday, as many of you know. I’ve been asking him in the last few weeks what he wants to do for his birthday. All I could get out of the kid was “Tomatoes!” I’m not even kidding. By giving him some options, we settled on his birthday supper and dessert. Hotdogs, with cucumbers and grape tomatoes (obviously) and chips. I gave him the option of all kinds of desserts, and he settled easily on cookies.

With the easiest supper plans ever, the day was super relaxed. The big kids biked a bit, and Solly played on the deck.

Wavy slept. Or at least she was supposed to be sleeping…

Busted.

My sister is out for the weekend, so she and my mom came over and joined the fun. It was such a nice low key evening of laughter and celebrating and good food.

After supper, we all grabbed a few cookies and headed out for a walk around the pond, like we try to do most days now. I don’t have pictures to show for it, but it was pretty much the ideal way to wrap up a day of celebrating Solomon!

Except that the kids were wired and didn’t fall asleep for quite some time. And then it turned out I was actually wired, too, and finally took something to help me fall asleep around 1:00am. Whoops! Its all good, though. I woke up in enough time to make it to the parade today 🙂

I hope you’re having a happy weekend, my friends!